Homework consumes far too much of our after school time. They have homework packets. Then flashcards. Then spelling words. Then nightly reading. And suddenly it’s almost dinner time. I don’t like it. I’m okay with some homework but loading on the home work isn’t productive. If Hallie gets 100% on every spelling test, why must she spend an hour and a half writing weeks worth of spelling lists in alphabetical order. It’s unnecessary.
This is how our typical afternoon looks:
The kids file off the bus and they are famished. We talk about the day and eat some food. Then the backpacks are opened and notebooks litter the table. I park it at the table next to them in-between keeping Briggs happy and helping Cannon in the bathroom.
Hallie can do most her work on her own. She starts going through her list and ends up asking me questions on how to do math problems in ways I was never taught. I proceed to teach her the way I know and she tells me she can’t do it that way. We then have to search the internet to figure how to solve the problems the way the new curriculum requires.
In between helping Hallie – Bennett is not so patiently waiting to be helped. He has two homework packets. One in english, one in spanish. He works through his packets quickly but usually doesn’t follow directions and ends up erasing everything. One day he’ll learn to wait for me to read him the directions. His homework requires more parent involvement and I’ve recruited Steve for reinforcements when he gets home from work. Steve speaks spanish with him as they do the homework which mimics his classroom setting.
Hunter is at the table with us as well and we don’t hear a peep from him. He has the least amount of homework of the three and Hallie can’t stand how much sooner he finishes and can leave the table. His classroom is really focusing on teaching the kids how to code working with robots so the minute his book work is done, he wants to do coding lessons on the computer.
As much as I wish this was a nice quiet library setting for them to finish their homework, it’s not. Instead, it’s loud and chaotic and there always seems to be three people that need something all at the very same moment. Which is why I despise homework time, but it does have one redeeming quality. While we sit around the table together – they talk and talk. They remember things about their day and they share it. They talk about the boy who got in trouble at recess or something funny at lunch. They tell about things they learned or things they observed. They’re little chatterboxes. I suppose that makes the homework time worth it regardless of how trivial the assignment may seem.
I hear ya on the math! My daughter is in 5th grade, and I have yet to figure out what is going on in math, it’s done much differently than the way I did it many years ago. Gotta love common core. ha I know what you mean about homework… my daughter, the one in 5th grade, has lots of it. My other daughter is in Kindergarten. She doesn’t have much homework, but does have sight word lists and reading to do, and some math homework every now and then. I’m not dealing with as many kids as you are. I don’t know how you do it.
I hate common core math too. Why can’t they just do it the way they want as long as they get the right answer. Our district is moving toward no homework in the lower grades (k-5). My younger kids have max 10 minutes of homework and then just asked to read each night. Push your district to do the research on it…..there’s tons of evidence it’s better for kids.
My 5th grader is pushing more than an hour of homework most nights. I’m not a fan. I think schools need to reevaluate our effective it really is. Glad your district is figuring it out!
Our school system is completely different. My third grader has zero homework and I hate it. Haha. Half the time I have no idea what she is learning and though she tells me it’s in the bite-sized, sometimes misinformation of a third grader who also wants to talk about lunch and art and gym. I love all the time she gets to play with siblings and us, but I worry about being out of the loop academically. We recently moved states and our previous school wasn’t quite as bad as you’ve described but there was enough homework for us to know what she was doing and where she needed a little extra push. Maybe school districts could find a happy medium.
I agree – there needs to be a happy medium. Too much and it’s overwhelming, not enough and you’re not sure what they’re actually learning!